Em's big day...

will actually be..not so big because..well, just because I say so. heheh..

She'll be turning 1 soon. We will be celebrating her first birthday this Sunday. But, the size of the celebration will only be a fraction of Ash's. Not that Ash had a gigantum birthday bash but just that with Em this time, the celebration will be even on a smaller scale.

The reason is because after Ash, I realised that she didn't enjoy it as much as we did. And, it's pretty much pointless then isn't it? I mean, the party is for her and not for the adults. It should be about them, and not us. So, why have it when the kid isn't happy? So, I decided that with Em, lets not over-do things and stay low; until she reaches the age where birthdays, parties etc...means something to her. Otherwise, she'll just continue to get confused with..oh, I don't know, something as confusing as CLA is to me.

We will get the usual cake, blow the candles bit. These are after all quite mandatory. Other than that, I wish to keep it simple. Not to mention, simple means good news to moms. :-D